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In 2015, dating scams cost Australians $55 million. Unfortunately, many of those who lost money had the best intentions. They were simply looking for love. Scam artists, however, take advantage of those with trusting hearts.

The majority of dating scams in Australia are related to online dating. That interaction could be on a dating site, social media or another community group. Communication between users and scammers begins very innocently. The stories they tell may paint them in a light of being in trouble or needing help. They prey on the empathy of others.

Their stories will often include reasons or objections as to why they cannot meet in person or talk through video applications. That should be a huge red flag. Until meeting in person or via video, you may never know with whom you are actually talking.

Their story is always vague as well and not easily verifiable through just an online search. This is another red flag, as most people, especially those you meet online, have some kind of digital footprint.

It’s important to pick up on cues that this could be a dating scam. Ask for proof of identity if you feel suspicious. Those who run these kinds of scams are good at winning confidence. Most con men are. Don’t allow your judgment to be clouded because you believe you have feelings for a person. The moment you are asked for money is the ultimate red flag.

Dating scams aren’t limited to just online money schemes. They also occur when a married man or woman enters an online relationship under a false identity. At least 41 percent of married individuals admit they have been unfaithful, either physically or emotionally. While these online relationships may be virtual that doesn’t mean it’s not cheating. There are even websites dedicated to making it easy for people to have online affairs.

If you are distrustful of your spouse’s online behaviour, it’s not always easy to gain access to someone’s digital activity. On the other hand, if you meet someone online that seems too good to be true then trust your gut. If the person, although real, wants to limit your interaction to virtual, this could indicate they have another life.

All of these dating scams happen every day to many innocent people. You may lose your money or your heart. The best thing to do when you can’t get answers is to turn to a professional. Private investigators know how to investigate people and reveal who they really are. If you are desperate for answers, we’re here to help. Contact us today to get the answers you deserve.

Is flirting when married just a bit of innocent fun or a gateway to an affair? While we may all be guilty of a friendly flirt with an old friend or playful banter with a stranger on a boozy night out, flirting shouldn’t be dismissed as harmless fun.

Perhaps your married man is flirting with an attractive co-worker, for example. You may brush if off as an exciting way to pass the workday or a flattering boost to the ego, but even innocent flirting can be a slippery slope to dangerous territory.

So, when does flirting become cheating? What are the warning signals? Is your partner’s flirting a sign of an affair on the horizon? In this post, we shed some light on why all flirting is a red flag.

It could be a warning sign that there’s more going on

Whether you have noticed your spouse batting their lashes at a friend, colleague, ex or even just someone they cross paths with during their daily activities (hello, cute barista), this behaviour is possibly a sign that there is more to their relationship than meets the eye. Flirting is often the first stepping stone to cheating. If your husband or wife is getting a little too friendly with another man or woman, whether it be in person, via text message or online, there is a chance that there is something going on between them, or they might be close to stepping over the line.

A new friendship could lead to emotional cheating

If your spouse is suddenly spending a lot of time with a new person, confiding in them and forging a friendship, it is possible they will develop romantic feelings for one another. Even if they have control over their physical desires, emotional cheating is just as damaging to a marriage. A new intense friendship can sometimes point to signs of an ulterior motive, especially if your partner is secretive about the relationship.

It could represent a lack of satisfaction in your relationship

Is your spouse happy in your relationship? If they are constantly flirting with other people, it is possible that they are seeking something they feel they aren’t getting in your relationship. This isn’t always physical – it could be attention, compliments or simply the excitement of a new person. If the passion has fizzled and the effort is lacking, it may be time to assess your relationship. When was the last time you wined and dined? If you suspect your spouse is turning to someone else to fulfil their needs, keep the spark alive and make your partner feel special with some flirting of your own. Marriage shouldn’t take the fun out of a relationship.

It could be hurting the flirt recipients

It takes two to tango, but the man or woman that your spouse is flirting with may be just as in the dark as you are about their intentions. If your spouse is directing their affections at the wrong person, leading them on with their risky behaviour, they could fast find themselves with a reputation as a heartbreaker or a sleaze.

Are you worried about your husband or wife’s flirting habits? Don’t brush it off as harmless fun – stop flirting before it progresses into an affair. If you suspect your spouse is cheating, contact us today to get the answers you need.

Do you suspect your partner of cheating? Perhaps you question whether they are spinning stories to avoid being caught out. Trust is one of the most important foundations of a relationship, and it can be a lonely and frustrating time when you doubt that trust.

If you are reading this article you are already suspicious that your partner is cheating on you…

In 2017 it is extremely rare to see an affair take place without any evidence on a digital device such as a tablet, laptop or a mobile phone. Whilst it is more common now than ever for evidence to be recorded digitally by way of communication, text message, photo etc it is also very easy to hide such interactions with apps created specifically for keeping information hidden readily available and commonly used for socialising such as Snapchat.

The most common warning sign we see at Infidelity Investigators when clients first contact us suspicious of their spouses infidelity is the fact they are guarded with their mobile phone. It may be they start leaving their phone face down, change their pin code or in some cases even have a new device all together.

When this occurs it is important to monitor their daily activity when they are away from the family home. When infidelity occurs there is generally a lot of lies being told about one’s where abouts and a change in routine and pattern of behaviour. The most common excuses are working late or going to the gym. Both of these excuses can be verified by conducting surveillance on your partner. If they say they are working late we can have an Agent position outside the workplace ready to follow them and see what time they leave work. If they say they are going to the gym after work we can have an Agent follow your partner from work to ensure they do in fact go to the gym after work as they say.

Physical change in appearance or an upgrade in their wardrobe is another key point to look out for. When someone is in the ‘honeymoon phase’ of a relationship they will be doing all they can to try and impress the new person.

Do you ask yourself are they mentally present when at home?

Do you find yourself talking to a brick wall?

Are things you say to your partner not being taken seriously?

If someone is having an affair the chances are their mind is totally consumed by the thoughts of the other person even when in the company of their long time partner. Research by medical professionals say it comes down to either guilt or just a complete lack of interest!

The team at Infidelity Investigators are asked daily “why is my partner accusing me of cheating?”. There is no short answer however if you know that you are not cheating then you can only wonder why they are asking. Is it guilt? Studies have shown that a person having an affair can become paranoid and start to accuse their partner of doing the exact thing they are worried about getting caught doing!

If you feel or suspect your partner of having an affair contact the trusted professionals at Infidelity Investigators on 1300 979 621 for a discreet and free phone consultation to discuss your individual situation.

If hiring a Private Investigator is the next step we will inform you of the options available along with the costs associated. It is not too late to act, we have affordable options available for everyone!

At Infidelity Investigators we have dealt with thousands of cases of Infidelity so knowing the warning signs are vital to planning out an investigation or surveillance operation. Below please read the 7 signs of a cheating partner:

1) Suddenly their work hours are longer. Or are they travelling a bit more? Making excuses to be away from the home or being otherwise occupied are a big sign of infidelity.

2) They are not mentally present. Do you find yourself chatting to someone who seems lost in their own thoughts all the time? Often a cheater will be emotionally removed from their original relationship due to guilt or a loss of interest. Some may stop noticing you altogether – you could walk around with a plastic bag over your head and they wouldn’t even realise!

3) Are they accusing you of being guilty of infidelity or cheating on them? Often someone who is hiding an affair will become paranoid and start to accuse you of what they are hiding.

4) Hiding or being overly secretive with their phone and email. Proof of an affair often lies within a communication device so when they create a new password, take the phone everywhere with them or become overly protective you certainly have reason to suspect infidelity.

5) Are they putting more effort in to their appearance however not worrying whether or not it impresses you? People like to present a polished version of themselves in a new relationship taking extra time to do their hair, going to the gym and buying new clothes can also be a major sign of infidelity.

6) A change in physical interest and intimacy is one of the first signs a partner has cheated. Studies have shown that when a male is cheating they experience an influx of testosterone which leads to an increased libido and need for sex. Therefore any major change in the frequency or nature of your sexual relationship can point towards infidelity.

7) Excessive talk about a new person in their life. Whilst it may seem unusual they will talk to you about the person they are cheating with this is a very common sign. The individual may be so attracted to this new person in their life they cannot help but talk about them even if its to their partner whom they are cheating on. It may be a work colleague, a newly single friend or even someone they have just met in their day-to-day activities.

Be aware of the warning signs, if you suspect your partner of cheating do not hesitate to contact us for a free consultation over the phone on 1300 979 621. We can discuss your individual scenario and provide a professional recommendation on how we can help you get the evidence you require. We can guarantee 100% confidentially and discretion from the initial consultation.